THE SELF-HEALING JOURNEY
The road to Healing can be such a different experience for all of us. We are each so unique in our sense of being.
It can be hard, as we learn to soften. It can be tumultuous, as we learn to be calm. It can oscillate in and out of danger and instability, as we try to discover what makes us feel safe and secure. Grounded.
To be Grounded is to be connected to this time & space. I call that space “Reality”- the here and now, the present. A moment grounded in reality can seem like Heaven and time can stand still. However, for many, it is a tormenting place to be, surrounded by denial, avoidance, and escapism. And until we face the truth of the reality, we cannot make the hard decisions that pull us out of our misery and into the Light. This is acceptance. It is a choice. It is that Heavenly moment of truth that gives us hope that things can get better if you change your ways - your way of thinking, acting, and reacting...your patterns. Only then can you have a change of heart, and that is when those true magical moments happen. I call it "Touching Heaven." It is my favorite place to be.
Good change comes from recognizing your patterns and changing your perspective and behavior. Getting there is a process. "True Healing" is a process that leads you to discovering your true nature, your True Colors. You must learn how to get to the root of who you are as a person, a unique individual. Your Spirit is alive underneath all that life you've been living. That IS the Healing Journey...to find your true Spirit.
If our Purpose is to create a life worth living, then Spirituality IS finding your Spirit, your true nature - your Home, so that you know exactly what you want and how you want to feel, as you create that life for yourself and the others with whom you choose to share your life. The Healing Journey is the process of you finding your way home, back to your center, hopefully experiencing many magical moments along the way, as it would make sense that without the risk there is no reward.
As a Healer, my purpose is to help guide you, to be a Light in the Dark, a whisper of hope in those moments of despair, and a force of nature to light a fire under your ass to get you moving when you are feeling stuck, stagnant or lost. There is no room for judgment in the business of healing, and I am in the business of healing Souls. I want to cheer you on when you are on the Light path and enlighten you when you've lost your way. We are not meant to live in isolation, although I do understand the process of self-healing can feel very lonely at times. There is no Love in feeling alone, so I suppose you will have to accept that you are not alone and continue looking inward to find your way. Ultimately, if you are paying attention, you will discover who you are and what you want for your own happiness. You will reach for the stars, picking up new friends along the way, so that you have others to share the life that you are creating with those who care to show up for the journey, while not judging us through our process.
It is the process of self-discovery through self-healing. This is what Love feels like. This is Heaven.
- Janet
"The Journey is the Reward." ~Ancient Proverb